Happy spreading happiness

Well, today this is going to be my 200th post and I want to thank each and every one of my readers who joined me in this journey of blogging and read my posts.

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Journey till here is so wonderful, and memorable which I want to last ever and ever.

Started as a hobby now turned into passion just because my readers love to listen. I promise that I will keep spreading smiles, and happiness ever.

Thanks a lot to GleefulBlogger Dipika for featuring me and making me famous in her blog.

She says in her V.I.PERSONAL NOTE FOR YOU THERE…

    “Getting an idea and planning about a task in hand is the easiest step, the mountain of challenges comes when you start implementing it….. but I had you to pull me out from all those technicalities….. I was so lucky to have you as my mentor… I know you since ages (okay 13 – 14 yrs), time has changed but you remain the same; bubbly, exuberant, lively, happy go lucky girl I knew back then. You guided me with patience and helped me on every single step from conception to publishing…. I have been bombarding you with tons of questions every single day; you solve all my worries with your signature smile and a tadkta-bhadakta dialogue in the end. Thanks for introducing me to blogging world Ruchi Di… and guiding me throughout this transition. Your simple likes & comments give me the zeal to perform more…. So please keep loving me like this and inspiring with your words….

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Thanks a lot, dear !! Thanks to my lovely readers here….

❤ Love all my readers ❤

Balancing Passion

Dad: What you want from life? What is your dream?

Me: Quite…

Dad (in anger ): If you don’t have a goal in life, life is a waste. Tell me what you want to be? 

Me: I want to be someone whom girls look up and say “want to be like Ruchie ” 

Dad: But for that, you need to be organized and have goals. 

This is what I got from dad vision being organized and from that day I thought and made a goal to be a balanced person giving best in every field of life. I accepted life with whole heart with love and jumped in the roller coaster life.

After being in an organization for many years I quit for my lovely daughter without any regret as family is always being my priority and I started enjoying my new status of 24/7 job of Domestic engineer where I learned to be more patience and discover new things being with my little daughter but there was something missing inside me and when kalakriti was born where I started giving dance, craft and stage presentation classes to kids and lived my passion of dancing with them and must admit here that #ILoveMyWork.

Life every single day teaches you something new and so mine and then I realized that whatever knowledge I am having a need to spread out and so I can gain more knowledge as learning process should not stop at a stage of life and I am not a perfect one. So, started my blog writing up my heart out as a true Gemini by nature so can’t stick to one and so my blog tells all about me, my heart. I love writing and when in return get an appreciation of my work from my readers and from clients I just can’t imagine that yes maybe I have marked an impression in someone’s life. In fewer words, I can say that I am living my dad’s teaching of “being organized and maintaining my passion together” and my mom’s lesson of “spreading knowledge is gaining knowledge” and I am gaining knowledge and so #ILoveMyWork.

Linking post to the prompt Writersmelon.

Pain

That morning I thought will bring a smile on my face with new hopes and more security in life but front news of Bangalore Molestation on New Year eve not only put again a question mark on the security of girls but also shook me from inside.

While we ( me and my hubby ) was discussing the same my 8-year-old little princess hopped in between of discussion and asked ” Why mummy, why u saying u are scared for me ?” left me speechless…. and I just thought how many questions and unwanted pain she must be going through thinking these questions and then I put myself in her shoes and wrote this small poem from her point of view.

I am just eight

 But have few questions to raise,

Mom is not allowing me to go out and play

She says “FOR Girls it’s not safe”

Why Only for girls it’s not safe?

Why brother can still go out and play?

 I told mom , some uncle gave me sweets and talked to me nicely

She followed me and scolded uncle too

Now he does not come n give me sweets

 But I saw him teasing some didi on the street

 Dad & mom all are upset with some Bangalore New Year news,

Mom kept on saying she is scared for me , she loves me

Still why she said this I have no CLUE,

I want to ask my lovely teachers in school Who guide me ? show me right way….to move

 Why mom is only scared for me?

Why brother is allowed to play out but not me?

 Why mom stops me to get drenched in rain?

Questions are many and giving me pain Please answer me teacher and take me out of this pain !!

I still don’t know what to answer my little girl and how to explain to her that she is right,image it’s just some sick mind people making this world unsafe for her.

Linking with Amrita or Deepa for #Mondaymommymoments

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Meeting the truth !!

Well this is absolute true as we have lived that one truth of life once which we can’t forget in our entire life!!

2015 started with a happy note when everyone was extremely happy knowing that Ira (my daughter) is going to get her sibling to play daily but destiny holded something which is beyond our imagination.

Due date which doctors given was July 2015 and due to emergency I got in hospital on 1st April & after all check up and reports my doctor suggested us it’s really tough to save d baby as their is no water left for baby inside..

Life taught us that yes ” Truth is really stranger than fiction ” but this was not an end …. As God had some other plans stored for us…

In 25th week of my pregnancy on 9th April 15 I delivered a baby boy with weight of 800 grams at 4:00 am morning .. And doctors said no hopes as it’s really tough to save him. We all were in tears, he was breathing but doctors said no use to keep him on ventilator as it’s not going to work..he was kept in NICU & told us to sign up few formalities and wait for call from NICU as it is a matter of few hours only.

Flodded in tears we were just waiting for a call from NICU, & shift of doctors changed at 12:00 pm and beyond expectations my baby was still surviving without any life support system & that shift doctor called us immediately and said it’s a miracle as even 36th or 35th week babies do collapse but he is fighting his own let’s give a try , we got a ray of hope …with this doc  she said she will try her best & felt sorry for her colleague not putting him on life support….

We rushed and completed all formalities to admit & start his treatment… Doctor told us ” chances are still only 5% of survival as there would be many tests to be done for him as he is not only premature but extremely premature baby which has only 1% history of survival of such babies ” but for that 1% we wanted to give a try …and we have given that try.

My miracle & fighter boy started his fight for  life, for 21/2 months with tests , procedures & what not. Daily used to be a challenge for us to see new test results sometimes up sometimes down ….sometimes without oxygen pipe he survives sometimes on ventilator… Days were passing everyday just with a hope to hold him get him home someday healthy to complete my family.

With prayers, good wishes of friends & family & constant support of doctors & sisters of hospital he survived & we welcomed him home with full grand welcome & happiness.

This is one of the rare case of this hospital where 25th week baby survived & discharged in thermacoal box & kept him in that box for next 2 months.

Till now I have heard about strange stories & miracles but my MIRACLE BOY proved that no one can decide death & life only God can!!!

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Written for Mycity4kids

12 lessons learnt in 12 months


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  1. Smile 🙂 : You willflat550x550075f-u1 see reflection of yourself the way you treat the world . Life is too short to complain and blame. You can win hearts by just a smile and your biggest problem can be solved with just a smile. So, smile and world will smile with you.
  2. Respect : Muchrespect important for every living creature. It’s like give and take ..this is simple funda …If you want to get respect learn to give respect.
  3. Don’t be Selfish :selfish Just learn to share as it’s said “Apne liye toh sab jeete hai …doosro ke liye jiyo toh jano ” yes share your happiness and share others sorrows life will be perfectly balanced.
  4. Family time : 12727918-family-time-concept-clock-closeup-isolated-on-white-background-with-red-and-black-words-stock-photoEvery thing can wait but time waits for none …and family need your time from virtual world ..so take out enough time from your virtual world and enjoy every second of it as this would be best quality time you cherish lifelong.motivational phrase, don't give up, handwritten with white chalk on a blackboard
  5. Don’t give up: Every problem comes with a solution and at time of problem in life stand tough and look out for solution rather just crying on it.
  6. God loves you: 478b22d162b601077f862fa68a7aaa6c286e0d43I think God loves me more as he knows I can handle tough situation , he knows I can be strong in tough times and so he keep taking my exams and helping me with cheat sheets for that problems. I love my God and so he loves me.
  7. Friends are blessings: friends-storreBe happy that you have atleast a friend in life to share your ups and downs . Friends are always there to support you they are your brother and sister from other mother. trust them and treasure your friendship.
  8. Accept unexpected : You can always get some unexpected things in life ready for it as it may give you surprise sometimes good sometimes bad ..
  9. Kids are blessings: imagesSpend time with kids in park, play with them and relive your childhood!!
  10. downloadSave water: When in our society there was shortage of water and we started counting on how much we spend water, I promised and learnt that we have to save water for our better tomorrow.
  11. jpg_rotaryphone2Call once to your parents in every 2 days, they may never tell you how much they miss you but yes !! take out sometime and give them a call and speak to them to give them good feel and love.8795825258_147340146e
  12. Take out time for most important person in life that is yourself. Be with yourself to understand what life is giving you and how you can handle it. Love yourself , spend time for yourself!!!

Writing this post for Indispire  for prompt “12 lessons you have learnt this year. Write about the significant or even not so significant things that happened to you this year which changed you and helped you grow and made you a better person in some way or the other. #LessonsLearnt ”