“JUG”of my life


It is said “If you want a happy married life , you need to be a good companion and friend”, I was always worried when my mom used to say “There is a marriage proposal for yo , let’s talk ..” and my reaction was like ….”seriously is there any person who can be like minded and can handle me, my tantrums and my never ending wishes along with my mood swings.”

But it’s all about destiny and God’s magical ward who connect you to a person who is made for you…

Going to share my story totally filmy and totally social media connected. We got connected by his aunt who came to stay in our apartment just for a month for his son’s coaching in Lucknow and she saw me and watched me very closely. Well my dad was on bed taken up VRS due to his medical condition of being paralyzed and as we are only 4 sisters and proud daughters of such a wonderful human being I was with my parents to support them. That time I was teaching in Lucknow University and it was in my routine that after coming back from university in evening I make sure to take papa out for his walk and exercise in our society. Mayank Aunt got confused thinking that I am physiotherapist of papa who comes daily in evening for his exercise and enquired about me from mom after knowing that I am her daughter she directly given up proposal of marriage for Mayank

When I got this news I straight away said NO as papa was not well and I don’t wanted to get married and leave home and parents, but when mom insisted I mailed my biodata and photo to Mayank’s account and all his family and he, himself liked my picture and added me on yahoo chat (that time no smartphone or no facebook) we started chatting and I poured my heart out to a person whom I never met or never seen.

I told him straight away “I don’t want to get married as my parents are my responsibility ” and reply poped up “Let’s make this responsibility ours”.

There was something in him which made me positive towards marriage and I said “Yes, without even meeting him.”

He is Jug of my life as he proved at time when after our engagement when my dad got next attack of paralysis andwe1 I called him saying “I can’t get married as doctor said for expensive injections which is more important than this marriage ”

He came like a JUG and replied ” Ab toh shadi hogi chahe mandir mein ho …karuga tumse hi …this is not about money ” and from then till date he cared for me, our family and everyone happy.

Mayank is Jug who knows how to bring a smile on my face, he reads my mind without me uttering a word, he gives me true and unbiased judgment when I am looking for an answer. With him I’m complete, he is crazy, he is lovely, he is only one who is there in my every single heartbeat. We are ofcourse life partner but I know before that we are one another’s best friend. Love u ❤ !!

#RuchiePens “am writing about Jug in my life for the #DearZindagi activity at BlogAdda“.


Happy Momma Moment

For every mother the every moment when you see your child smiling and playing and growing each day is the happy moment. When Ira was born in 2008 that day I thought this is my happiest moment, she completed me and my womanhood ..everyday is so happy and delightful that mentioning one moment is really tough….

Years later Ira started asking for her younger bother or sister , whie studying about siblings in EVS she started demanding for younger one and we decided again to bring home little joy of bundle but this time God was holding something else in his plan. My little boy got delivered in 6th month and was extremely premature where doctors told us no chances of survival …he was there in NICU but doctors were waiting for some bad news to give us, they don’t even kept him on life support system and for 8 hours my fighter son was fighting his battle without any artificial life support.

Then doctors called us and said let’s admit him and start medical treatment with all tests and all, we happily agreed hoping for miracles and after 2 months of medical treatment in hospital when doc called us and said “Yes you can take VIRAJ the miracle boy home” that moment was the happiest moment for me as a mother, It’s God’s blessings and my son’s fighting spirit with our prayers he is with us as naughty little one.

Read full story of his birth here.


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When I Was A Child


When I was a child I still remember and cherish some very happy and funny moments of childhood.

One such funny incident I still remember and we often laugh on it.

Me and my elder sister used to take a walk of our lane. I was 12-13 years old and very quick in replying and singing is my all time fav job. So we both were taking walk and being a die hard fan of Madhuri Dixit I started walking and singing her new song “Mera piya ghar aaya …O Ramji ….” and my voice slowly and slowly went on increasing.. My elder sister said ” Ruchi stop ..chalti road pe nahi gaate …” and kept walking after she walked few steps she realized that I am not walking along with her , when she turned back she saw me sitting in middle of road.

She returned back to me and asked, “Why are you sitting on road ?” Get up let’s go back home ….

I told her, ” Didi kaun bola tumko road chal rahi hai…main gaa sakti hoon, chalte chalte gaate hai …road nahi chal rahi …”

Very angrily she took me back home and told all mom all what happened, mummy scolded me and said as all mothers says ” Char log dekhte toh kya kehte…aaise road pe baithe hai?”

My head down I only said, ” Mummy waha do log bhi nahi the ….char kaha se dekhte ”

I got good bash from papa after that, but now when we think about this incident we all smile and remember old good times.

Wish to turn back and go back to childhood.


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💝Dear Zindagi💞


Dear Zindagi,
BEING HUMAN” is not restricting ourselves to think about Salman Khan’s brand, it’s much more beyond that and for that I want to thank God and Thank you Dear Zindagi.

12118785_10153714247569184_879631670843664584_nGiving me a life worth of living and giving me zindagi with values want to Thank my parents 10172745_10152411423324184_5024105186921430826_nfor filling my zindagi with morals and values being a human being, I can never ever forget my teachers for shaping my Zindagi with knowledge and teaching me to carry that knowledge in right way to live life.527781_10150915898094184_66710615_n
I learned sharing and caring with my 3 beautiful sisters who always stood by me like a pillar of my life in tough time when I used to be sad for small or big things. 10338720_10204125081475830_7560670356319362833_nMy friends who filled my zindagi with their humor and unconditional love. Zindagi you have given me best childhood with so many wonderful memories to cherish all life.
you have given some tough time too with dad’s paralysis attack but with that you blessed me and my family with more willpower to fight with that.

You turned me strongest person with positive attitude gal.
399134_10150784017574184_443238623_nWhen I planned to stepped into new life you planned best with bringing a life partner who understood me without speaking a word, who respected my parents as his and broken a myth of people that a son in law can never be a son. A girl always dream of a home with love and laughter and you have given me that with my soulmate a happy family where my inlaws treated me as a daughter and they have given me important part of all decisions & my love my life partner who always encourages me to follow my dreams. Zindagi you made my life worth with Mayank and wimage2hen you showed us our face of love “Ira”
our daughter you completed me as a woman.
You never forgot to test my patience and believe in God. You came up with very scary night with my14632962_10154702587864184_3605622400752308417_n son’s extremely premature delivery but you forgot that you only made me strong to fight with odds and when I am strong so how you expected my little fighter son “Viraj” will be scared of your tests.


“ज़िंदगी तुझसे कोई गिला नहीं
जो दिया तूने दिया ,
जो मिला तुझसे मिला ,
हँसके जीती हूँ ,
हँसके जीती रहूँगी,
क्यूँकि मैं हूँ तेरी और
तू है मेरी ज़िंदगी “


Thanks for filling me with love, happiness, care , humanity and being MY ZINDAGI. looking forward for more adventure, love, fun , tests and above all more excitement…learning every day new  things in life and wanna learn more my zindagi !! Thanks for filling me with Zindagi with your love ❤ and smile ….you are me n I’m yours!!


Love you

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Table No: 5


It’s her first day in this restaurant and she was little nervous and sad, not so enthu about her new job, it was her son’s responsibility which bought her here for this job.

“Maria”, Manager called her


“Take order from table no: 5”

“Table 5 ” she asked again

“Yes, any problem ”

“No”, She walked towards table 5 thinking why me got to take this order.

As she reached there saw a beautiful couple sitting there and enjoying the view of lake side, she smiled and asked “Order sir ”

“Sandwich and 2 Cold drinks ”

Smiled and returned back thinking “God please don’t repeat the history given order to restaurant chef and felt little relaxed as she passed her fear of going to table 5.

Table 5 where she first met John her life partner, ordered same sandwich and 2 cold drinks and they moved happy in life but destiny decided something odd for her, when she lost John in an accident she has to take this job and live for her son.

Her journey of love life started with Table No.5 and now Journey of responsibility started with Table no.5.

Tina Basu

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