Jab we met !!

fimequfbcoverpic

Our first meeting was so Bollywood style… my dad was on a bed with paralysis & my mom want me to get settled but I had some other plans “Not to get married ” Mayank’s aunt planned her summer vacation to our neighbors as they were relatives & saw me taking care of my dad.

She told my mom that she thinks that his nephew will be the perfect match for me and given the phone number of his parents. My mom spoke to them without my knowledge and suddenly when I returned back from my job she said “Apna biodata mail kar do” & gave me 2 mail ids with my pic to scan n send …after so much argument I said ok and went cyber cafe to mail on both id’s (one id was of Mayank & other was his sister) as my mom noted the wrong id of his sister…mail BOUNCED & my bio data along with pic only reached to Mayank!!

He says he was in love with my smile & called his parents n said yes you can go n meet her.

He added me on yahoo chat and we started chatting… very generally I told him about my plans that until papa is not well and stand up on his own I will not marry.. he said ok … n told me that he will make sure he will respect my decision but gradually we started chatting n after few weeks he called he… we started talking on phn too .. he told me that his parents are planning to visit my place to see me and told me how to dress so that his mom gets impressed & I did ..I, myself don’t know when I started liking him.. his parents visited n liked me and even fixed our engagement date also … I was happy and even he was sounding same but still, we have not met each other…. now as it termed officially all though we should meet & say yes as they all were unaware that we are talking each other from long.

I was about to visit my sister place in Hyderabad and as he was posted in Pune so decided that he will come down to Hyderabad and meet me, then we can tell d decision to our families.

Day arrived 19th August 2006 he entered my sister’s place with my high heartbeat and how he would look like? How he will react? How he will smile? Will he say yes? So many questions were just flashing!!!

10488243_10152590747184184_9065638873861796378_n

He came and it was decided that we will go in a mall there we can talk and as we went there, all others left us alone and we both standing in front of some jewellery shop first sentence he said “Ruchi let’s go and buy a ring …for you” and I was like on cloud 9 …

10517552_10152590742714184_4261364039627552197_n

We called our parents and told them that it’s yes from our side too!!! And in April 2007 we tied knot for many more lives it’s 10 years of togetherness but still my heart pumps like it’s just happened a few seconds back.. we got 2 faces of our love Ira and Viraj our kids and  he kept his promise “Ruchi these many years your papa treated you as princess now my turn to treat you as queen of my life..” and so I am …Queen of my king !!!

I am writing this post towards #MagicOfLove contest by Novemberschild“ 

 

Letter for Love

jp

❤ Lovingly love Mayank ❤ 

15590496_1303435413012976_254055232805089876_n

It was never so perfect life without you before 10 years. It’s amazing journey of 10 years and I feel blessed that you are my companion for life …
I still remember when we met first and you directly said …”Chalo let’s buy a ring for  you!!” my heart still beats fast when I think of those magical words… for me love, marriage was always like with someone who can understand me, who can understand my thoughts without speaking up and you still listens to me whenever and whatever I think without uttering a word. Today we have our 2 faces of love in face of Ira and Viraj. We have shared all good times together but I remember those tough times when I needed you most when dad left us and you stood next to me like a strong pillar and made me realize that my choice of getting married to you is my BEST decision. You said at that time “Papa took care of her princess for so long now it’s my turn to take care of his princess ” and you kept your words!!
Time tested us and our love many times , even when Viraj was born in 6th month as an extremely premature baby we was in tears as hopes were shattered but our love and our headstrong togetherness made our little wonder a champ and we got our second face of love with God’s own blessings as a Miracle boy!!
Thanks is a really small word to show my gratitude towards the life I am sharing with you !!
On this Valentines day, this is small poem I would love to dedicate to you

“Teri parchaiyian, teri muskurahat
mere jeene ki wajah hai
tere hone se mere dil mein
har din ek naya sawera hai
zindagi gujar rahi thi par
tere saath isko mili jeene ki wajah hai “

13627085_10154366604839184_4239805510442058270_n we3

Linking this post with Deepa and Amrita for Valentine’s day Prompt of #MMM

16832165_1133812373407456_7420290358189641845_n

 

Positive Attitude

Starting my week with a positive note which I believe is the most important aspect of life.

A positive person can come out from any situation very easily, having a positive attitude and positive thinking is the best way to win challenges in life.

In our daily life, we come across two kinds of people, one who are taking life with full energy with his/her positive thing and the other one who is taking life with negative thinking or attitude. All of us affect, in one way or another, the people we meet.

Negative thoughts, words, attitude brings negative energy and-and bad mood and lead towards failure, frustration, and a lot of disappointment.

Few things which we can follow in daily life and make our life positive.

  • Learn to add “I can”, “it can be done”, “I will do this”, in your daily conversation. before starting any particular job if you add negative thoughts it will sure give you negative results.
  • Associate yourself with people who think positive.
  • To strengthen your confidence and inner power sit and walk straight it will give you confidence.
  • Watch programs which give you happiness.
  • Eat healthily and talk to the person with whom you feel happy daily.
  • Try to ignore negative thoughts.
  • Be always Thankful to people who have helped you in any way in life.

©Ruchie2k17

Happy spreading happiness

Well, today this is going to be my 200th post and I want to thank each and every one of my readers who joined me in this journey of blogging and read my posts.

6a00e5503379c68834010536bfa3d5970b

Journey till here is so wonderful, and memorable which I want to last ever and ever.

Started as a hobby now turned into passion just because my readers love to listen. I promise that I will keep spreading smiles, and happiness ever.

Thanks a lot to GleefulBlogger Dipika for featuring me and making me famous in her blog.

She says in her V.I.PERSONAL NOTE FOR YOU THERE…

    “Getting an idea and planning about a task in hand is the easiest step, the mountain of challenges comes when you start implementing it….. but I had you to pull me out from all those technicalities….. I was so lucky to have you as my mentor… I know you since ages (okay 13 – 14 yrs), time has changed but you remain the same; bubbly, exuberant, lively, happy go lucky girl I knew back then. You guided me with patience and helped me on every single step from conception to publishing…. I have been bombarding you with tons of questions every single day; you solve all my worries with your signature smile and a tadkta-bhadakta dialogue in the end. Thanks for introducing me to blogging world Ruchi Di… and guiding me throughout this transition. Your simple likes & comments give me the zeal to perform more…. So please keep loving me like this and inspiring with your words….

note1

Thanks a lot, dear !! Thanks to my lovely readers here….

❤ Love all my readers ❤

“JUG”of my life

we3

It is said “If you want a happy married life , you need to be a good companion and friend”, I was always worried when my mom used to say “There is a marriage proposal for yo , let’s talk ..” and my reaction was like ….”seriously is there any person who can be like minded and can handle me, my tantrums and my never ending wishes along with my mood swings.”

But it’s all about destiny and God’s magical ward who connect you to a person who is made for you…

Going to share my story totally filmy and totally social media connected. We got connected by his aunt who came to stay in our apartment just for a month for his son’s coaching in Lucknow and she saw me and watched me very closely. Well my dad was on bed taken up VRS due to his medical condition of being paralyzed and as we are only 4 sisters and proud daughters of such a wonderful human being I was with my parents to support them. That time I was teaching in Lucknow University and it was in my routine that after coming back from university in evening I make sure to take papa out for his walk and exercise in our society. Mayank Aunt got confused thinking that I am physiotherapist of papa who comes daily in evening for his exercise and enquired about me from mom after knowing that I am her daughter she directly given up proposal of marriage for Mayank

When I got this news I straight away said NO as papa was not well and I don’t wanted to get married and leave home and parents, but when mom insisted I mailed my biodata and photo to Mayank’s account and all his family and he, himself liked my picture and added me on yahoo chat (that time no smartphone or no facebook) we started chatting and I poured my heart out to a person whom I never met or never seen.

I told him straight away “I don’t want to get married as my parents are my responsibility ” and reply poped up “Let’s make this responsibility ours”.

There was something in him which made me positive towards marriage and I said “Yes, without even meeting him.”

He is Jug of my life as he proved at time when after our engagement when my dad got next attack of paralysis andwe1 I called him saying “I can’t get married as doctor said for expensive injections which is more important than this marriage ”

He came like a JUG and replied ” Ab toh shadi hogi chahe mandir mein ho …karuga tumse hi …this is not about money ” and from then till date he cared for me, our family and everyone happy.

Mayank is Jug who knows how to bring a smile on my face, he reads my mind without me uttering a word, he gives me true and unbiased judgment when I am looking for an answer. With him I’m complete, he is crazy, he is lovely, he is only one who is there in my every single heartbeat. We are ofcourse life partner but I know before that we are one another’s best friend. Love u ❤ !!

#RuchiePens “am writing about Jug in my life for the #DearZindagi activity at BlogAdda“.