Meeting the truth !!

Well this is absolute true as we have lived that one truth of life once which we can’t forget in our entire life!!

2015 started with a happy note when everyone was extremely happy knowing that Ira (my daughter) is going to get her sibling to play daily but destiny holded something which is beyond our imagination.

Due date which doctors given was July 2015 and due to emergency I got in hospital on 1st April & after all check up and reports my doctor suggested us it’s really tough to save d baby as their is no water left for baby inside..

Life taught us that yes ” Truth is really stranger than fiction ” but this was not an end …. As God had some other plans stored for us…

In 25th week of my pregnancy on 9th April 15 I delivered a baby boy with weight of 800 grams at 4:00 am morning .. And doctors said no hopes as it’s really tough to save him. We all were in tears, he was breathing but doctors said no use to keep him on ventilator as it’s not going to work..he was kept in NICU & told us to sign up few formalities and wait for call from NICU as it is a matter of few hours only.

Flodded in tears we were just waiting for a call from NICU, & shift of doctors changed at 12:00 pm and beyond expectations my baby was still surviving without any life support system & that shift doctor called us immediately and said it’s a miracle as even 36th or 35th week babies do collapse but he is fighting his own let’s give a try , we got a ray of hope …with this doc  she said she will try her best & felt sorry for her colleague not putting him on life support….

We rushed and completed all formalities to admit & start his treatment… Doctor told us ” chances are still only 5% of survival as there would be many tests to be done for him as he is not only premature but extremely premature baby which has only 1% history of survival of such babies ” but for that 1% we wanted to give a try …and we have given that try.

My miracle & fighter boy started his fight for  life, for 21/2 months with tests , procedures & what not. Daily used to be a challenge for us to see new test results sometimes up sometimes down ….sometimes without oxygen pipe he survives sometimes on ventilator… Days were passing everyday just with a hope to hold him get him home someday healthy to complete my family.

With prayers, good wishes of friends & family & constant support of doctors & sisters of hospital he survived & we welcomed him home with full grand welcome & happiness.

This is one of the rare case of this hospital where 25th week baby survived & discharged in thermacoal box & kept him in that box for next 2 months.

Till now I have heard about strange stories & miracles but my MIRACLE BOY proved that no one can decide death & life only God can!!!

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My Superhero My dad

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Well it’s absolutely true my dad my hero !!!

I want to tribute my this write up for my superhero my dad!!!

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Umesh Chandra Srivastava may b just a name or some relation for others who knew him as son, brother, chacha, mama, mausa, jijaji or a friend but for us he is still our lifeline to survive every day with his teaching!!

He was always a good son , husband, brother ,friend but he was a greatest dad. He has given us best upbringing…

He got 4 daughters and never regret for that … I still remember when some relative came and said “Beti ho par Beta ban kar khayal rakhna ” papa you was there to correct him and said ” yeh beta nahi meri Beti hai aur Mujhe garv hai ki meri Beti hai … Yeh 1 Beti meri 10 Beto se lakh guna behtar hai … You said “Ruchi I am proud that you are my daughter n you proud yourself being a girl ” thanks papa for never making us realize that we don’t have any identity. Thanks and sorry words are beyond what we feel it’s much more than that .. ❤️ you made me to feel proud of being a daughter n a girl child.

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Only daughters and giving everyone best education and never regretted that he got daughters!!

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He invested his all hard earnings in our education and believed in us …

He was a mentor , he was one guiding source for me he was solution for every problem!! image

But God decided something else for us and in 2004 he got brain hamrage and paralysis attack and for 7 long years went on bed .., but he never left us alone in any situation even in bad n tough times when sometimes relatives and all left us alone he stood like big pillar of strength and made us believe that nothing is going to be wrong as long as we are correct…he was strongest person who survived on first attack for 12 hours without proper medical treatment with his will power.

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He always said ” If you believe you can .. Only then you can ”

From emotionally, mentally, financially he never left us alone …he was always there standing right with us.

But as says “अच्छाई की ज़रूरत सब को होती है ”  and may be God too need and must be he needed more so in 2010 he called him and made him a star to shine up there and give us endless light

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Papa we love u, Papa we miss u,

You must be listening to us,

and we promise…

we will follow & carry your dreams, your teaching & your values

Papa but still I need you today, tomorrow everyday!!

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Written for Mycity4kids

Connect to kids

life is very beautiful and it becomes best when little kids enter in your life…

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Kids as we call them face of God understands parents every word and believe in that…

Your kid is important to you but more important is how you treat him/her daily …

5 simple things which you should daily once tell to your kid to feel him/her more connected to you

#1 I LOVE YOU

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Love is one language understand by every creature of God so atleast in a day tell your kid how much you love him and love being with him …how much they add value to your life…

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2# I TRUST YOU

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You are your kids first friend… Just be a friend and tell them that u trust them ..you believe in them .. Yes, they will learn to tell you all their problems n tensions without a feeling of fear!! They will know yes.. You trust them!!

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3# TELL THEM HOW SPECIAL THEY ARE

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Involve them in your happiness share your worries and listen to them tell them every celebration is happy if special person like you are part of it.. Make them to feel that special feeling!!

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4# APPRECIATE THEM

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Tell your kid that yes they made you proud on their simple help or anything…don’t hesitate to say thank you appreciate them for their little help to them ..tell them that they made u happy.

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5# YOU CAN DO IT

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Every kid needs some moral support, trust and backup …tell your kid to keep trying ..learn from failures and be grounded on winning!!

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Disclaimer: Originally posted on Mycity4kids

 

7 baby products I love

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There are so many baby products in market but few which are always trustworthy and I don’t give second thought buying them.

My list of 7 fav baby products :

 

1.FIGARO OLIVE OIL :

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Massaging babies daily is as much important as for any human being to drink water ….it’s not only going to nourish my baby skin but also giving massage daily from Figaro Olive Oil going to make his bones strong.

2. JOHNSON’s BABY SOAP :

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This soap is really makes my boy bathing session more enjoyable as it is enriched with 1/4th baby lotion and vitamin E and it really gives no tears and helps to moisturise my baby’s skin by reducing moisture loss while cleansing.

3. JOHNSON’s BABY LOTION :

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After taking bath everyday I make sure my happy baby be happy with his nourished and moistured skin and to maintain that what better I can choose than Johnson’s baby lotion it helps to keep his skin soft and moistured.

4. JOHNSON’s baby cream :

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Well sometimes I see my baby’s cheeks are chapped but I trust that Johnson Baby cream is best way to come out of this problem not only this but it also helped me at time of irritating wetness and windburn.

5. PAMPERS NEW BORN DIAPERS :

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Everthing goes in vain if your baby can’t have proper sleep, all enjoyment will be gone if you are in mall or in party and your baby motion and wet not worth diapers irritates him….
Well as I already told that Viraj was in hospital for 2 months and then he came home where doctors strictly mentioned his sleep should not get effected because of wet bed…so as he was in hospital we also trusted and given him peaceful sleep with PAMPERS NEW BORN DIAPER …

As it makes my baby’s day happy and night with peaceful dreams …it is easy 4 ways steps to put on to your baby.

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And once he is in his favourite pampers you need not to worry up to 12 hours … Yes 12 hours absorption quality, not only this it comes with soft stretch waist and sides along with extra dry layer and baby lotion and it’s really soft like cotton.

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“Pampers brings you the softest ever Pampers Premium Care Pants. Its cotton-like softness is #SoftestForBabySkin and allows it to breathe, thus keeping baby’s skin soft and healthy, and your baby happy. ”

6 . Morisons baby sippers

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This is so soft and perfect and made up of high quality that I trust this for my little wonder champ.

7. Morisons wet wipes :

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These wipes are my fav too as it Contains mild fragrance,  Stretchable and doesn’t tear easily, Easy to clean baby after mealtime, playtime, while travelling or during diaper change, Gentle enough for wiping baby’s face and hands too and contains Aloe Vera and vitamin E Ideal for gentle skin with PH 5.5

Linking Up with Amrita or Deepa for #Mondaymommymoments for the prompt “7 of my favourite Baby products”

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Guide to Have Your Kids Clean up Their Mess at Home

One of the most important things parents should do it teach their children how to take care of themselves. This task sometimes turns out to be too hard for most parents because in most cases it is too hard for them to succeed in making their kids put their clothes and socks away.

However, if you succeed in teaching your children how to clean up their mess at home, it will be easier for you to make them create some useful habits and be responsible to themselves and their lives. The “Go and clean up your room” request usually gets a response of slamming doors and even hurt feelings. So, parents should remember that children normally learn best when they are offered positive role models and encouragement. Do not push them too hard or offend them in any way.

  • Make a request, not a command

The truth is that children usually give up easily when it comes to cleaning the big mess they have left earlier. Still, they should be taught to be persistent and carefully deal with all the tasks they have by dividing them in several parts that are easier to manage.

In addition, children reach more sympathetic to their parents’ requests to help them with the cleaning process if a specific task is given to them. A great approach is to also help them over the process and show them you care for them.

  • Give them a choice

When your children get bigger, you can also offer them a choice of a few thing that should be done. It is important not to use the domestic cleaning chores as a punishment, because this is how you will make it even more unpleasant for them to do.

  • Make a cleaning schedule

A good approach is to make a list or a schedule with all the cleaning chores for the week and give a specific task for every member of your family. This will definitely boost the sense of responsibility in your children, not to mention the fact that it will make them more empathetic to your family activities.

  • Ask your children join in

All children are curious. So, make them part of your weekly cleaning routine. A good idea is to also ask them about their opinion or ask for an advice how things could be made easier and quicker. By doing this, you will show your children that you care for their opinion, not to mention the fact that they will really feel like part of the family, and this is to help them create useful habits and an ability to work in a team. It will also bring them sense of responsibility and leadership.

  • Be fair when separating the tasks

Remember that all cleaning tasks should be given in correspondence to the child’s age and skills. DomesticCleanLondon Wimbledon advises you to give the easiest tasks to the youngest ones and the hardest ones to the big children. Also, do not forget to talk to them. You should explain why is keeping your home clean and well-organised is so important and always show them how to do the domestic cleaning chores properly.

  • Make cleaning a lot of fun

You should teach your children to be careful and attentive when doing the home cleaning tasks. But you should still remember that they are only children and such tasks usually get them bored easily. So, try to make some fun out of the domestic cleaning. Make a small competition with prizes or play a game. Be creative. Children love competitions and games, so this would be a great way to make them clean the mess quicker.

About the Author: 

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Isobel Newman is from London. She operates a small cleaning business. In her spare time, she writes articles with parenting tips and cleaning guides.For more follow her website DomesticCleanLondon Wimbledon

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