“I don’t know what to do? last exams Isha’s friend scored more than her and Isha was little sad” Megha asked Raghav in tensed mood.
“Why are you comparing your daughter capability ?” Raghav always hated comparison
“You will not understand…” She again went towards study room and started teaching Isha.
This is common problem or common conversation during exam times.
Have you ever wondered why we as parents are more tensed and creates such situations?
WHY PARENTS ARE TENSED?
- A comparison is the biggest mistake we do and lead to tensed.
- Social pressure, social updates 100/100 attendance or 100/100 marks.
The responsibility of Parents:
- Remember every child is unique with his/her talent, academics are very important but don’t think that your child can be a jack of all traits, maybe your kid is gifted with some other talent than solving maths questions.
- Don’t pressurize your child to score more than what you want.
- Help them to study in the happiest environment.
- Guide them to study and help them to solve their questions and doubts.
- Let them take a break and indulge themselves in their most loved activity may be music, dancing or playing outside which will work like a stress buster for them.
- Give them positive encouragement. Parents guidance and parents encouragement works as a medicine.
Give your child wings of your support, encouragements, and love rather putting him on your social pressure. Let your child be what he/she wants not what your facebook status needs.
I feel very lucky who got parents, who have given me values and motivation to keep going. There were so many time and so many incidents happened in life where I felt dishearten but whenever I feel down and low one voice always comes from my heart and mind “DON’t GIVE UP” which my papa taught me. He made me a strong human being always ready to stood with head up with dignity and never giving up attitude.
The lesson I learned in my life and living on that given by my dad, he once said: “It’s up to you what you want either give up and lose your self-respect in your own eyes or don’t give up and lead an example and earn dignity and pride for yourself”.
This post is written for IndiSpire !!
Starting my week with a positive note which I believe is the most important aspect of life.
A positive person can come out from any situation very easily, having a positive attitude and positive thinking is the best way to win challenges in life.
In our daily life, we come across two kinds of people, one who are taking life with full energy with his/her positive thing and the other one who is taking life with negative thinking or attitude. All of us affect, in one way or another, the people we meet.
Negative thoughts, words, attitude brings negative energy and-and bad mood and lead towards failure, frustration, and a lot of disappointment.
Few things which we can follow in daily life and make our life positive.
- Learn to add “I can”, “it can be done”, “I will do this”, in your daily conversation. before starting any particular job if you add negative thoughts it will sure give you negative results.
- Associate yourself with people who think positive.
- To strengthen your confidence and inner power sit and walk straight it will give you confidence.
- Watch programs which give you happiness.
- Eat healthily and talk to the person with whom you feel happy daily.
- Try to ignore negative thoughts.
- Be always Thankful to people who have helped you in any way in life.
Well, today this is going to be my 200th post and I want to thank each and every one of my readers who joined me in this journey of blogging and read my posts.
Journey till here is so wonderful, and memorable which I want to last ever and ever.
Started as a hobby now turned into passion just because my readers love to listen. I promise that I will keep spreading smiles, and happiness ever.
Thanks a lot to GleefulBlogger Dipika for featuring me and making me famous in her blog.
She says in her V.I.PERSONAL NOTE FOR YOU THERE…
“Getting an idea and planning about a task in hand is the easiest step, the mountain of challenges comes when you start implementing it….. but I had you to pull me out from all those technicalities….. I was so lucky to have you as my mentor… I know you since ages (okay 13 – 14 yrs), time has changed but you remain the same; bubbly, exuberant, lively, happy go lucky girl I knew back then. You guided me with patience and helped me on every single step from conception to publishing…. I have been bombarding you with tons of questions every single day; you solve all my worries with your signature smile and a tadkta-bhadakta dialogue in the end. Thanks for introducing me to blogging world Ruchi Di… and guiding me throughout this transition. Your simple likes & comments give me the zeal to perform more…. So please keep loving me like this and inspiring with your words….
Thanks a lot, dear !! Thanks to my lovely readers here….
❤ Love all my readers ❤
Dad: What you want from life? What is your dream?
Dad (in anger ): If you don’t have a goal in life, life is a waste. Tell me what you want to be?
Me: I want to be someone whom girls look up and say “want to be like Ruchie ”
Dad: But for that, you need to be organized and have goals.
This is what I got from dad vision being organized and from that day I thought and made a goal to be a balanced person giving best in every field of life. I accepted life with whole heart with love and jumped in the roller coaster life.
After being in an organization for many years I quit for my lovely daughter without any regret as family is always being my priority and I started enjoying my new status of 24/7 job of Domestic engineer where I learned to be more patience and discover new things being with my little daughter but there was something missing inside me and when kalakriti was born where I started giving dance, craft and stage presentation classes to kids and lived my passion of dancing with them and must admit here that #ILoveMyWork.
Life every single day teaches you something new and so mine and then I realized that whatever knowledge I am having a need to spread out and so I can gain more knowledge as learning process should not stop at a stage of life and I am not a perfect one. So, started my blog writing up my heart out as a true Gemini by nature so can’t stick to one and so my blog tells all about me, my heart. I love writing and when in return get an appreciation of my work from my readers and from clients I just can’t imagine that yes maybe I have marked an impression in someone’s life. In fewer words, I can say that I am living my dad’s teaching of “being organized and maintaining my passion together” and my mom’s lesson of “spreading knowledge is gaining knowledge” and I am gaining knowledge and so #ILoveMyWork.
Linking post to the prompt Writersmelon.